Are pastors servants or saviors? Lately the quote on the left has been floating around, and it has irked me to no end.
Of course the sentiment is sweet, and God knows (literally) how much pastors and other caregivers need prayer, support, and a kind word on occasion. The intent is beautiful. But something about this particular quote has stuck in my craw ever since I first saw it posted.
I couldn’t name it until Batman v. Superman came out.
As you might have heard, BvS received mixed reviews. Fans sort of liked it, critics largely did not. In its third week at the box office, it was beaten by a Melissa McCarthy movie that had little hype behind it and received even worse reviews!
[Warning: big spoilers follow!]
In lieu of this, BvS director Zack Snyder has already started to talk up the R-rated Director’s Cut that will be released, arguing that scenes cut for time and content will flesh out the characters and fill in some of the narrative gaps, both of which were complaints by many critics and fans alike. In response to a specific question, about why Superman doesn’t save Martha himself at the end, he details one of those deleted scenes:
We had a scene that we cut from the movie where he tries to look for her when he finds out that Lex has got her…It was a slightly dark scene that we cut out because it sort of represented this dark side. Because when he was looking for his mom he heard all the cries of all the potential crimes going on in the city, you know when you look.
I kind of like the idea that he’s taught himself not to look because if he looks it’s just neverending, right? You have to know when, as Superman, when to intervene and when not to. Or not when not to, you can’t be everywhere at once, literally you can’t be everywhere at once, so he has to be really selective in a weird way about where he chooses to interfere.
Even Superman can’t be everywhere at once. Even Superman can’t be on duty all the time. Even Superman needs a nap every now and then.
This pervasive mythology about pastors and other caring professions – that we are “on” all the time, that we never get to take time off, that we are “never off duty” – is not only wrong, it is sinful.
Sabbath is not a command for all of those who are not professional religious types.
We do not cease to be creatures dependent on the Creator because part our vocation includes caring for others.
This lie has much to do with issues see related to clergy (and let’s also add counselors, nurses, and other caregivers). It is a recipe for burnout and frustration. Moreover, it is functionally agnostic, because it tells us we don’t really need time with God if we are doing stuff for God.
“Never” get to be off duty? “Never” get to have a normal schedule or punch out at 5?
This is evil. And it is evil for us to live into these inhumane expectations and not challenge them among those we serve. We are not Superman. Even Superman has a Fortress of Solitude where he is “off duty” and takes time away.
We are servants, not saviors. Or, as a prayer attributed to the martyred Archbishop Oscar Romero says, we are ministers and not messiahs:
We cannot do everything, and there is a sense of liberation in realizing that.
This enables us to do something, and to do it very well.
It may be incomplete, but it is a beginning, a step along the way,
an opportunity for the Lord’s grace to enter and do the rest.
We may never see the end results,
but that is the difference between the master builder and the worker.
We are workers, not master builders; ministers, not messiahs.
We are prophets of a future not our own.